The advice given Mortenson by his Pakistani mentor was profound in his dealings with Pakistan. "The first time you share tea with a Balti you are a stranger. The second time you take tea, you are an honored guest. The third time you share a cup of tea, you become family, and for our family, we are prepared to do anything, even die" (150). This concept is amazing, even standing alone. However, I think it has profound implications for us in the United States. We desperately need to slow down. We need to build relationships. And, like Mortenson, we need to need to be willing to take chances, acting on what we believe to be right.
On a separate note, I enjoyed being a fly on the wall as a mother sat with her two young sons, I'm guessing aged 4 and 6. The youngest was excitedly telling his mother how he'd helped his friend Jonny tie his shoe earlier and how his friend had thanked him. He was so proud and boldly stated "I'll never forget this." And he beamed. Oh, for the simple life.
This is a great blog, Dustin. We're hoping to have a staff event in the next year or so (when we can get it scheduled) when we have some faculty come discuss this book with us and we drink tea together. I've heard great things about it. Oh, and wherever you end up teaching, please keep me posted because you're the kind of teacher I want in front of my kids.
ReplyDeletethanks, becky! i'm more excited about teaching every day! i'll definitely keep you and your husband informed... you guys are some pretty awesome people!
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